my pregnancy: 9 weeks

How your baby's growing:

Your new resident is nearly an inch long — about the size of a grape — and weighs just a fraction of an ounce. She's starting to look more and more human. Her essential body parts are accounted for, though they'll go through plenty of fine-tuning in the coming months. Other changes abound: Your baby's heart finishes dividing into four chambers, and the valves start to form — as do her tiny teeth. The embryonic "tail" is completely gone. Your baby's organs, muscles, and nerves are kicking into gear. The external sex organs are there but won't be distinguishable as male or female for another few weeks. Her eyes are fully formed, but her eyelids are fused shut and won't open until 27 weeks. She has tiny earlobes, and her mouth, nose, and nostrils are more distinct. The placenta is developed enough now to take over most of the critical job of producing hormones. Now that your baby's basic physiology is in place, she's poised for rapid weight gain.

See what's going on in your uterus this week.

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

You still may not look pregnant even if your waist is thickening a bit. You probably feel pregnant, though. Not only are morning sickness and other physical symptoms out in full force for most women, but you may feel like an emotional pinball as well.

Mood swings are common now — it's perfectly normal to feel alternately elated and terrified about becoming a parent. Try to cut yourself some slack. Most women find that moodiness flares up at around six to ten weeks, eases up in the second trimester, and then reappears as pregnancy winds to a close.

When to break the news at work "I waited until after the first trimester to tell my boss. By then I wasn't as worried about something happening to the baby and had time to think about a maternity leave plan." — Kristin

Decision Guide: When to tell at work?

Some women spill the baby beans at work right away. Others wait as long as they can for fear that their pregnancy will affect how their boss or co-workers view them. Many women wait until they're in their second trimester, when their pregnancy is well established and the risk of miscarriage has declined significantly. What's the best time for you to announce? Here are some factors to consider:

Are you having any complications? If you are, and you have frequent visits to your caregiver or are very preoccupied, you might feel relieved if you told your colleagues early in your pregnancy.

How sick are you? If you're suffering from near-constant nausea or frequent vomiting, you may have to tell your supervisor about your pregnancy earlier than you'd prefer. Before you tell her, figure out what you want: Compassion? Time off? A flexible schedule until you get through the worst of it? Ask for what you need and then assure her that most women feel better by the end of the third month.

Is your job strenuous or potentially dangerous? For your baby's sake and your own, you'll probably want to come clean early on. Making your announcement right away will allow you to talk about changing your job responsibilities in a timely manner.

Will your supervisor and colleagues be supportive? This will depend on your workplace culture, the extent to which your workplace has been affected by other women's pregnancies, and your relationship with your supervisor. If you're confident that your employer will handle the news in a professional manner, announcing your pregnancy early means you can take advantage of any employer-provided services that can help make your pregnancy healthier and less stressful.

Unfortunately, some employers may be less than enlightened about pregnant employees. If you're concerned about your employer's reaction, proceed cautiously, and consider waiting to tell your boss until you're starting to show. You might also want to quietly take aside a colleague who's been pregnant at work and ask her how she was treated.

Finally, be aware of your legal rights. A federal law called the Pregnancy Discrimination Act (PDA) prevents covered employers from firing, demoting, or compensating women differently just because they're pregnant. In addition, many states have similar laws that prohibit discrimination against pregnant women.

What do most women do? Here's when thousands of BabyCenter members announced their pregnancies at work:
• 23 percent spilled the beans right away.
• 23 percent waited a few weeks until they absorbed the news themselves.
• 36 percent waited until after their first trimester.
• 14 percent waited until they started to show.

The good news: The vast majority had a positive experience — 83 percent said their boss was supportive when they revealed their baby news.

Got a question about your rights? Get confidential advice by calling the hotline at 9 to 5, National Association of Working Women: (800) 522-0925.

This Week's Activity

Start a daily ritual to connect with your baby. Diane Sanford, a clinical psychologist who focuses on pregnancy and postpartum adjustment, encourages women to set aside two five- to ten-minute periods a day to think about their baby. Just after waking up and before going to sleep works well for many expectant moms. During these times, sit quietly and gently rest your hands on your belly. Focus on your breathing and then start thinking about your baby (your hopes and dreams, your intentions as a parent, etc.). It's a great way to initiate the bonding process and to help you plan for the kind of parent you want to be.

my pregnancy: 8 weeks

How your baby's growing:

New this week: Webbed fingers and toes are poking out from your baby's hands and feet, his eyelids practically cover his eyes, breathing tubes extend from his throat to the branches of his developing lungs, and his "tail" is just about gone. In his brain, nerve cells are branching out to connect with one another, forming primitive neural pathways. You may be daydreaming about your baby as one sex or the other, but the external genitals still haven't developed enough to reveal whether you're having a boy or a girl. Either way, your baby — about the size of a kidney bean — is constantly moving and shifting, though you still can't feel it.

See what's going on in your uterus this week. (Or see what fraternal twins look like in the womb this week.)

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

You may notice that your bra is getting more snug. Soon you'll likely need a larger size with better support. Rising levels of hormones cause breast growth and other tissue changes, all in preparation for lactation. Your breasts may continue to grow throughout pregnancy. Don't be surprised if you go up a cup size or two, especially if it's your first baby. Keep this in mind, and allow for room to grow when investing in a new bra.

Feeling fatigued? Hormonal changes — in particular, a dramatic rise in progesterone — may be contributing to your sluggishness. Nausea and vomiting can certainly cost you energy, too. And you may be having trouble getting a good night's sleep at this point, especially if you're uncomfortable or find you need to get up to pee.

Walking to beat fatigue "Taking a short 15- to 20-minute walk helped me cope with the overwhelming fatigue that hit me in the first trimester. It was the only way I made it through a day at work without a nap!" —Gabriela

Decision Guide: Which prenatal tests are for you?

Your healthcare provider will offer you a range of genetic screening and diagnostic tests during your pregnancy. Some are simple blood tests, while others involve more invasive procedures — and all are optional. Before you agree to any test, ask your caregiver to explain what it is, how it's done, whether the test itself is risky in any way, and what the results will tell you. Many prenatal tests are for screening rather than diagnostic purposes. Screening tests give you a sense of your risk for certain conditions. But only a diagnostic test can tell you for sure whether your baby has a problem. Here are your options during the first trimester:

First-trimester combined screening test: This relatively new screening test combines a nuchal fold scan (using ultrasound to measure the clear space in the tissue at the back of your developing baby's neck) with a blood test to measure two proteins. The scan is performed between 11 weeks of pregnancy through the end of 13 weeks, and the blood test may be done at the same time or possibly a few weeks earlier. First-trimester combined screening gives you information about your baby's odds of having Down syndrome and may tell you whether your baby's at higher risk for a few other problems as well. Although it's not diagnostic, the screening is essentially risk-free and may help you decide whether you want invasive diagnostic testing such as chorionic villus sampling (CVS) or amniocentesis, which slightly increase the risk of miscarriage.

Chorionic villus sampling (CVS): This diagnostic test involves collecting cells from the placenta, which are then sent to a lab for genetic analysis. CVS can identify whether your baby has any of hundreds of chromosomal abnormalities and other genetic disorders. It's done in the first trimester, usually between 11 and 12 weeks, making it an earlier alternative to another diagnostic genetic test called amniocentesis, which is done between 16 and 20 weeks.

my pregnancy: 7 weeks

How your baby's growing:

The big news this week: Hands and feet are emerging from developing arms and legs — although they look more like paddles at this point than the tiny, pudgy extremities you're daydreaming about holding and tickling. Technically, your baby is still considered an embryo and has something of a small tail, which is an extension of her tailbone. The tail will disappear within a few weeks, but that's the only thing getting smaller. Your baby has doubled in size since last week and now measures half an inch long, about the size of a blueberry.

If you could see inside your womb, you'd spot eyelid folds partially covering her peepers, which already have some color, as well as the tip of her nose and tiny veins beneath parchment-thin skin. Both hemispheres of your baby's brain are growing, and her liver is churning out red blood cells until her bone marrow forms and takes over this role. She also has an appendix and a pancreas, which will eventually produce the hormone insulin to aid in digestion. A loop in your baby's growing intestines is bulging into her umbilical cord, which now has distinct blood vessels to carry oxygen and nutrients to and from her tiny body.

See what's going on in your uterus this week.

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

Your uterus has doubled in size in the past five weeks, and eating may feel like a chore — or worse — thanks to morning sickness, which by now may be in full swing. (If you're feeling fine, don't worry — you're lucky!)

You may need to pee more than usual, too, thanks to your increasing blood volume and the extra fluid being processed through your kidneys. (By now, you already have about 10 percent more blood than you did before you were pregnant. And by the end of your pregnancy, you'll have 40 to 45 percent more blood running through your veins to meet the demands of your full-term baby.) As your uterus grows, pressure on your bladder will send you to the bathroom as well.

About half of the women who feel nauseated during the first trimester will find complete relief by about 14 weeks. For most of the rest, it'll take another month or so for the queasiness to ease up. It's unlikely, though, that the need to pee more than usual will ease up. In fact, research shows that both the frequency and volume of urine tends to increase over the course of pregnancy.

3 Questions About Prenatal checkups

Sometime in the next few weeks is the perfect time to see your healthcare provider for your first prenatal visit. Good prenatal care helps give your baby a healthy start in life.

Q1.

How should I prepare for my first appointment?
Write down all of your questions and bring them with you so you can use your time effectively and get the professional advice you're hungry for. Mention everything you're feeling or wondering about, no matter how insignificant. Also:

• Bring a list of all your medications (prescription and over the counter, including supplements) so your caregiver can assess whether they're safe to take now.

• Look back over your calendar and note the first day of your last period. Your doctor or midwife will use this date to estimate your baby's due date. (Don't worry if you haven't been keeping track or have irregular periods. If you don't have a reliable menstrual date, your caregiver can schedule an early ultrasound to date your pregnancy.)

• Take some time to review your family medical history and your partner's. If you're not sure whether anyone in your family has a chromosomal or genetic disorder, check in with your parents or another close relative. Your caregiver will ask you about this to help guide her prenatal testing recommendations.

Q2.

What happens during these appointments? Your practitioner will generally start by asking how you're feeling physically and emotionally, whether you have any complaints or worries, and what questions you may have. She'll have other questions as well, which will vary depending on how far along you are and whether she has specific concerns.

The goal of prenatal visits is to see how your pregnancy is proceeding and to provide you with the information you need to help keep you and your baby healthy. Your midwife or doctor will check your weight, blood pressure, and urine; measure your abdomen; check the position of your baby; listen to your baby's heartbeat; perform other exams and order tests as appropriate; and closely monitor any complications you may have and intervene if necessary.

At the end of the visit, your practitioner will review her findings with you, explain the normal changes to expect before your next visit and the warning signs to watch for, counsel you about lifestyle issues (such as the importance of good nutrition and avoiding tobacco, alcohol, and drugs), and discuss the pros and cons of optional tests you may want to consider.

Q3.

Should my partner go with me?
That's up to you. Some couples find that they benefit from going to prenatal appointments together — especially the biggies like the first visit, the ultrasound exam, and anytime key test results will be revealed. Here's what other BabyCenter couples say: 57% of pregnant women who took our poll said they always want their partners to attend appointments with them. 37% of partners say they go to every prenatal appointment.

If you're not happy with your caregiver, look for another. The average woman has about ten to 15 prenatal visits, so it's important to choose someone you like and trust. For more information, see How to choose a prenatal caregiver and What to expect at prenatal appointments.

• Some moms-to-be want their partner to join them for every prenatal appointment. Others are happy to go on their own. How do you feel about it?

This Week's Activity:

Take a photo of your belly. Have someone take a picture of you this week — before your pregnancy starts showing. Then keep taking photos once a month until your baby arrives. It's a great way to track your progress, and you'll love having the keepsake. Tips for a great shot: Consider wearing the same outfit, standing in the same spot, and striking the same pose (profiles work best) for each photo. Black-and-white shots and nudes or semi-nudes can be especially beautiful.

my pregnancy: 6 weeks

How your baby's growing:

This week's major developments: The nose, mouth, and ears that you'll spend so much time kissing in eight months are beginning to take shape. If you could see into your uterus, you'd find an oversize head and dark spots where your baby's eyes and nostrils are starting to form. His emerging ears are marked by small depressions on the sides of the head, and his arms and legs by protruding buds. His heart is beating about 100 to 160 times a minute — almost twice as fast as yours — and blood is beginning to course through his body. His intestines are developing, and the bud of tissue that will give rise to his lungs has appeared. His pituitary gland is forming, as are the rest of his brain, muscles, and bones. Right now, your baby is a quarter of an inch long, about the size of a lentil bean.

See what's going on in your uterus this week.

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

You may find yourself developing a bit of a split personality — feeling moody one day and joyful the next. Unsettling as this is (especially if you pride yourself on being in control), what you're going through is normal. Ricocheting emotions are caused partly by fluctuating hormones. But hormones aside, your life is about to change in a big way — and who wouldn't feel emotional about that?

Spotting (spots of blood on your underpants or toilet tissue after urinating) or bleeding is relatively common in early pregnancy, affecting up to a quarter of pregnant women. It may occur in a normal pregnancy, but sometimes it can be the first sign of miscarriage or an ectopic pregnancy. If you have any spotting or bleeding, call your provider.

The chewable alternative "My prenatal vitamins made me sick, so my doctor gave me a prescription for fruit-flavored chewable prenatal vitamins and suggested I take them with meals. That really helped." — Janice

Surprising Facts: Could it be twins?

Sure, twins run in families and you're more likely to be carrying multiples if you've undergone fertility treatments, but any woman can become pregnant with more than one baby. Could you be one of them?

Your odds of carrying twins

• Overall, about one in 31 births (greater than 3 percent) are twin births. But your chances of having twins are much less — 1 in 89 — if you conceive without medical assistance. The overall odds of bearing triplets or higher-order multiples is about 1 in 565.
• Identical twins usually happen by chance. Your likelihood of having identical, or monozygotic, twins (when one fertilized egg divides in half) is about 1 in 250.
• A number of factors affect your odds of having fraternal twins or higher-order multiples. Fertility treatments dramatically increase your odds. On average, 20 to 25 percent of women who take fertility drugs or undergo in vitro fertilization or other assisted reproductive techniques end up carrying more than one baby.

Other factors that influence the likelihood of having fraternal twins

• Once you have a set of fraternal twins, you're twice as likely to have another set in a future pregnancy.
• Fraternal twins run in families, so if you're a twin or related to twins, you're more likely to have a set yourself. Your partner's family history doesn't appear to affect your odds of having twins.
• The older you are, the greater your chances of having naturally occurring fraternal twins or higher-order multiples. Hormonal changes in older women are a likely cause.
• Fraternal twins are more common than average in African Americans and less common in Hispanics and Asians.
• The more pregnancies you've had, the greater your chances of having twins.
• Twins are more common in large and tall women than in small women.

When you'll find out whether you're carrying twins
These days, women typically discover they're having more than one baby during an ultrasound, often in the first trimester. If you opt for first-trimester genetic screening, you'll have an ultrasound between 11 and 13 weeks. If you're pregnant as a result of a fertility treatment, you'll probably have an earlier ultrasound, usually within the first eight weeks to count the number of embryos that have implanted. Your practitioner also will recommend an ultrasound if your uterus is larger than would be expected given the number of weeks since your last period. Ultrasound is almost foolproof at revealing multiple pregnancies, particularly after six to eight weeks. However, the more babies you're carrying, the easier it is for one to get overlooked.

• Fertility treatments dramatically increase your odds of having fraternal twins and higher-order multiples. Do you have twins or multiples thanks to fertility treatments?

my pregnancy: 5 weeks

How your baby's growing:
Deep in your uterus your embryo is growing at a furious pace. At this point, he's about the size of a sesame seed, and he looks more like a tiny tadpole than a human. He's now made up of three layers — the ectoderm, the mesoderm, and the endoderm — which will later form all of his organs and tissues.

The neural tube — from which your baby's brain, spinal cord, nerves, and backbone will sprout — is starting to develop in the top layer, called the ectoderm. This layer will also give rise to his skin, hair, nails, mammary and sweat glands, and tooth enamel.

His heart and circulatory system begin to form in the middle layer, or mesoderm. (This week, in fact, his tiny heart begins to divide into chambers and beat and pump blood.) The mesoderm will also form your baby's muscles, cartilage, bone, and subcutaneous (under skin) tissue.

The third layer, or endoderm, will house his lungs, intestines, and rudimentary urinary system, as well as his thyroid, liver, and pancreas. In the meantime, the primitive placenta and umbilical cord, which deliver nourishment and oxygen to your baby, are already on the job.

See what's going on in your uterus this week.

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:
You may notice some pregnancy-related discomforts already. Many women report sore breasts, fatigue, and frequent urination starting in the early weeks. You may also have nausea, though it's more likely to show up in the coming weeks.

The outside world won't see any sign of the dramatic developments taking place inside you — except that you're turning down that glass of wine with dinner, perhaps. It's important to avoid alcohol throughout your pregnancy since no one knows exactly how much — or how little — alcohol can harm a developing baby.

You'll also want to continue or start an exercise routine. Exercise helps you develop the strength and endurance you'll need to manage the extra weight you'll be carrying. It may help prevent some of the aches and pains of pregnancy, and many women find that it's a great stress-reducer. Exercise can also help you get ready for the physical rigors of labor.

Finally, it's easier to bounce back after you give birth if you've continued some form of exercise throughout pregnancy. Choose a safe, moderately vigorous activity you enjoy. Walking and swimming are fine choices for pregnant women.

Dads, there are plenty of ways to participate in your partner's pregnancy — even this early in the game. Check out these great tips on how to get involved.

my pregnancy: 4 weeks

How your baby's growing:
This week marks the beginning of the embryonic period. From now until 10 weeks, all of your baby's organs will begin to develop and some will even begin to function. As a result, this is the time when she'll be most vulnerable to anything that might interfere with her development.

Right now your baby is an embryo the size of a poppy seed, consisting of two layers: the epiblast and the hypoblast, from which all of her organs and body parts will develop.

The primitive placenta is also made up of two layers at this point. Its cells are tunneling into the lining of your uterus, creating spaces for your blood to flow so that the developed placenta will be able to provide nutrients and oxygen to your growing baby when it starts to function at the end of this week.

Also present now are the amniotic sac, which will house your baby; the amniotic fluid, which will cushion her as she grows; and the yolk sac, which produces your baby's red blood cells and helps deliver nutrients to her until the placenta has developed and is ready to take over this duty.

See what's going on in your uterus this week. (Or see what fraternal twins look like in the womb this week.)

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.


How your life's changing:
Sometime this week, you may be able to find out whether you're pregnant. For the most accurate results, wait until the end of the week to take a home pregnancy test. (You can try one now if you like, but you're more likely to get a correct result a week past your expected period.)

If the test is positive, call your practitioner's office and schedule your first prenatal appointment. Most practitioners won't see you until you're about eight weeks along, unless you have a medical condition, had problems with a previous pregnancy, or are having symptoms that need to be checked out.

If you're taking any medications — prescription or over-the-counter — ask now whether it's safe to keep taking them. And be sure to alert your caregiver to any other issues of concern.

You should already be taking a multivitamin that contains at least 400 micrograms (mcg) of folic acid. Once you're pregnant, you'll need a bit more — 600 mcg a day — so switch to a prenatal vitamin if you haven't already.

The next six weeks are critical to your baby's development. The rudimentary versions of the placenta and umbilical cord, which deliver nourishment and oxygen to your baby, are already functioning. Through the placenta, your baby is exposed to what you take into your body, so make sure it's good for both of you.

If your home pregnancy test is negative, take another at five weeks if you still haven't gotten your period. Many urine tests are not sensitive enough to detect a pregnancy at four weeks.

If you've been trying to conceive with no success for a year or more (or for six months if you're over 35), talk to your healthcare provider about a workup exam for you and your partner to spot possible fertility problems. While the results may be upsetting, finding out about a problem sooner rather than later will get you started on the road to treatment — and to your ultimate goal: having a baby.

Akad Nikah 14 Ogos 2008

Majlis Persandingan

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01 April 2008
esok petang piju a.k.a b (my beloved fiance) akan ke kuantan tuk g interview jawatan TA.. sedih kene tinggal walaupom sehari dua..huhu.. harap2 b dapat jawatan TA tu... yelah sekarang ni dia keje TA pom tapi kontrak je.. yang dia nak g temuduga ni jawatan tetap..kalu dia dapat tetap.nie la hadiah kami untuk menuju ke alam perkahwinan..

One Month To Go

1 months from today, I will be someone's wife.

isteri curang pastu suami akan curang?atau suami curang baru isteri curang??atau sebaliknya

ari nie g kota baru tuk ambik barang2 hantaran..mula2 pegi ambik hantaran pastu g mkn..b nak bawak mkn tempat kesukaan dier laa..restoran ****...rahsia, restoran tu tom yam dier sedap...yummy...yummy.....apalagi kami pom mkn macam org 10 tahun tak makan.hehehe...
dok sedak makan,tibe2 masuk la sorang mamat ni...b pom royak la"da tengok *** tu" aku pom paling la...oooo,ingatkan mai dengan bini dier,rupa2nya mai dengan pompuan lain...aku stady je,mmm biarlaa mayb adik dier ke, mak saudara ke, sepupu sepapah dier ke...aku pom sambung balik hirup tom yam aku...sruppp,srupppp... si edyn dgn mek chik pulok masuk restoran tu...haiyaaa jupe lagi dengan diaorg tu, ini kali ke-2 jupe ngan diaorg tu...kali pertama aku mai dengan b dan adik,cuma kali ni tukar aman jer....hehehehe...sempat lagi aku cakap kat diaorg lepas ni diaorg tu nak g mane pulok??? mane tau kot2 jupe lagi...hehehe...edyn royak nnt dia nak tgk list dier dulu..huhuhu,masuk air betoi...tengah sedak dok bual2 tu,si *** pom prasan la kewujudan kiteorg kat restoran tu...guess what??? si *** tukar tempat duduk...asalnya dia duduk setentang dengan aku,alih-alih mengadap dinding pulok...aku pom was-was laa....b pom sama,aman pom turut serta was-was....hahaha...ni mesti kejean pelik nie...so lu pikir la sendiri...
lepas b bayar bill,kiteorg nk g kb mall...dalam kepala aku, macam2 dok pikir pasal ni...nak marah pom ade,geram etc...sampai kat kb mall pom dok terpikir,aku tertanye2 kenapa la ni berlaku??? why?abis mood aku nak shopping....last2 b je yang shopping...kesudahannya aku x shopping pape pom...geram betoi!!!

07/07/08~tak best pom

Today anniversary kami yang ke-2 ke 3 ?? entah la aku pom xtahu, xpenah sambut pom...sedih la bile b wat xtahu jer..bile kuar pegi lunch, dia pom wat xtahu jugak...lepas kuar,aku antar la sms ucapkan hepi anniversary..baru la dia balas jgk..dia royak selama ni xpenah wat pom..mmm xtahu la selama nie dia penah sambut ke dok...aku memang wajib kene sambut..cukup la setakat ucapkan ke...aku xmintak hadiah berjuta-juta pom!!! sakit ati jugak,tapi nak wat guaner dah dia memang macam tu...besday aku yang lepas pom dia xingat,inikan anniversary..lagi xingat...so lepas ni xpayah la nak pening kepala gua nak pikirkan nak beli hadiah pe...maybe lepas ni aku sambut besday aku dengan diriku sendiri..giler ke pe nie???entahhhhh...biiioooo kot...huhuhu

Shopping..:)

Yahoooo, ari ni pegi shopping,hehehe...ape yang lagi best,g shopping dengan b...mula2 g shopping barang2 kemas untuk hantaran,best la...semua nak..hehehe...lepas shopping barang2 kemas,g shopping alat2 mekap plok..g cuci2 mate barang2 hantaran,makan2,jalan2,datim dengan b..huhuhu

Perbincangan

Arini pihak lelaki mai umah untuk bincang tarikh akad nikah..dalam pukul 5.20 petang rombongan sampai...padahal mai 5 orang jer....hehehe...bincang dok bincang...dapat la tarikh...tarikh akad nikah pada 14.08.08 ari khamis malam jumaat..untuk majlis persandingan pulok pada 18.08.08 ari isnin..majlis menyambut menantu 22.08.08 ari jumaat..so itu saja yang dapat di update..daaa

Kek Fondant

today g jupe kak ida untuk bincang pasal kek fondant...saya pegi dengan adik ngan b...b serah semuanya pada saya pasal kek tu...hehehe...bincang punya bincang,saya tempah 3 biji kek...haaa terkejut ar tuh....yelah 1 untuk saya,1 untuk pihak lelaki,1 lagi untuk acara potong kek(*ni mak idea)..wahh tak sabar nak tgk kek fondant saya.... daaaaaaaaa

Tension Betoi..

Semakin dekat nak kawin,semakin kalut rase yer...huhuhu...mak andam dengan fotografer blom dapat lagi...aduss pening nyer..susah betoi nak cari mak andam yang freelance nie...kek kawen pom blom g order pom lagi...hantaran blom g antar lagi...aduss banyak nyer perkara yang blom di wat nieeee...haaaaaaaaaaaaaa tension nyer....2 3 arini dok asyik pening pale jer,mengadu ke b pom xde maknanyer...baik tak payah nak ngadu...wat sakit ati jer..mmmm tension betoi!!!

arini saya cabut gigi...hehehe..dah lame dos dok planning nak cabut gigi, arini baru g...payah giler doc nak cabut td..macam nak tercabut pale nie..hehehe...

Bingkisan Doa

Arinie saya nak kongsi doa untuk yang bercinta, siapa-siapa yang tengah bercinta atau baru nak bercinta atau tengah tunang, amal-amalkanlah doa nih…

Ya Allah… Seandainya telah engkau catatkan… Dia milikku tercipta buatku… Satukanlah hatinya dengan hatiku… Titipkanlah kebahagian antara kami…. agar kemesraan itu abadi… Dan ya Allah… ya tuhanku yang maha mengasihi… Seiringkanlah kami melayari hidup ini… Ketepian yang sejahtera dan abadi…
Tetapi ya Allah… Seandainya telah engkau takdirkan… dia bukan miliku… Bawalah ia jauh dari pandanganku… Luputkanlah ia dari ingatanku… Dan peliharalah aku dari kekecewaan…
Serta ya Allah ya tuhanku yang maha mengerti… Berikanlah aku kekuatan… Melontar bayangannya jauh ke dada langit… Hilang bersama senja nan merah… agar aku bahagia… Walaupun tanpa bersama dengannya…
Dan ya Allah yang tercinta… Gantillah yang telah hilang… Tumbuhkanlah kembali yang telah patah… Walaupun tidak sama dengan dirinya…
Ya Allah ya tuhanku… Pasrahkanlah aku dengan takdirmu… Sesungguhnya apa yang telah engkau takdirkan… Adalah yang terbaik buat ku… kerana Engkau maha mengetahui… Segala yang terbaik buat hamba Mu ini…
Ya Allah… Cukuplah engkau sahaja yang menjadi pemeliharaku… Di dunia dan di akhirat… Dengarlah rintihan dari hamba Mu yang daif ini… Jangan engkau biarkan aku sendirian… Di dunia ini mahupun di akhirat… Menjuruskan aku kearah kemaksiatan dan kemungkaran… Maka kurniakanlah aku seorang pasangan yang beriman… Supaya aku dan dia sama-sama dapat membina kesejahteraan hidup… Ke jalan yang Engkau redhai… dan kurniakanlah padaku keturunan yang soleh….
Amin.. Ya Rabbal A’lamin.

Two Months To Go...

And 2 months from today, I will be someone's wife. There are a lot of things to do for the preparation. And only 20% settled as of now. I think 2 months is an ample time for me to settle everything. Hopefully. I am really looking forward to it

♥♥♥♥♥ I PROMISE YOU.....♥♥♥♥♥

♥I promise you my heart♥
♥I promise you my life♥
♥I promise we'll never be apart♥
♥I promise not to hurt you♥
♥I promise to never make you cry♥
♥I promise to always trust you♥
♥I promise not to lie♥
♥I promise you forever♥
♥I promise you tonight♥
♥I promise you my respect♥
♥I promise to do things right♥
♥I promise to always be there♥
♥I promise until the end♥
♥I promise to always love you♥
♥I promise you my love♥
♥I promise you my life♥
♥I promise this forever♥
♥u're the PEANUT to my BUTTER ,♥
♥u're the STAR to my BURST,♥
♥u're the POP to my TART,♥
♥u're the MILKY to my WAY,♥
♥u're the FRUIT to my LOOP,♥
♥u're the LUCKY to my CHARMS,♥
♥u're the ICE to my CREAM,♥
p/s: khas untuk b

Minumlah Air Suam/Panas Selepas Makan

Serangan Jantung dan Minum Air Suam

Fakta ini sangat bagus. Bukan semata-mata berkenaan air suam, tetapi berkenaan Serangan Jantung... Masyarakat Cina dan Jepun minum the panas untuk ketika bersarapan, bukannya air sejuk, mungkin inilah masanya kita perlu mengubah tabiat minum semasa makan.

Kepada sesiapa yang gemar minum air sejuk, fakta ini sangat bermakna buat anda. Memanglah sesuatu yang nikmat untuk minum segelas air sejuk selepas makan. Walaubagaimanapun, air sejuk akan melikatkan minyak yang kita makan bersama hidangan. Sudah tentu ia melambatkan lagi proses pencernaan. Sekali gumpalan minyak ini bertindakbalas dengan asid di dalam perut, ia akan memecah dan diserap oleh enzim intestine lebih cepat berbanding makanan pejal. Ia akan selari dengan enzim intestine. Dalam masa terdekat, ia berpotensi bertukar menjadi lemak dan mendorong kepada kanser. Adalah penting untuk minum sup panas atau air suam selepas makan.

Petanda Lazim Serangan Jantung

Amaran berkenaan serangan jantung - Anda seharusnya mengambil tahu yang petanda serangan jantung bukan sahaja pedih pada sebelah kiri dada. Awasi jika terasa sakit yang menyesakkan pada dada kiri. Mungkin anda belum pernah merasa sakit dada semasa terkena serangan jantung. Muntah-muntah dan berpeluh berlebihan juga antara tanda-tanda lazim. 60% pesakit yang terkena serangan jantung adalah ketika sedang tidur dan tidak boleh bangun dari tidur. Sakit pada dada boleh menyebabkan tidak sedarkan diri. Berhati-hati dan berjaga-jagalah sentiasa. Lebih banyak yang anda ketahui berkenaan serangan jantung, maka lebih peluang untuk anda terselamat.

Kata pakar kardiologi (jantung), jika seseorang telah membaca fakta ini, sebarkanlah ia kepada 10 orang lain yang dikenali, anda mungkin tidak mampu menyembuhkan pesakit, tetapi anda sebenarnya berjaya menyelamatkan seseorang dari menjadi pesakit.

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Umah Sewa

huhuhu...b kene pegi kusus lagi kat kemaman... baru je balik interview kene g kusus pulok kat Intan.. ari rabu baru b balik cini... owh...aboh tak bagi kitaorang duk umah sewa bile kami dah kawen.. cian pulok ke b, yelah dia dah dapat umah sewa.. rase serba salah pulok nak royak.. tapi tu kan keputusan aboh,kene la kami ikut.. lagipon untuk kebaikan saya dan b jugak kan? hehehe.. tapikan saya rase aboh tak bagi duk umah sewa tu sebab aboh sayangkan kami kot..hehehe gedik betoi kan?? pasal umah sewa tu, b cakap dia nak sewa jugak umah tu sampai akhir tahun ni.. kira bayar sewa jelah, tak duk pom umah.. balik tengahari je kot...hehehe...i guess la bagi pihak b...

perdamaian tercipta

hehehe. dah berdamai dengan tunang.. mmm biase ler gaduh-gaduh ni.. saya ingat lagi mase ari pertunangan saya ari tu... sorang makcik pesan ke saya "selamat bertunang dan dalam alam pertunangan nie ade macam2 dugaan yang datang... so kene banyak sabar dan tenang menghadapi dugaan yang datang"i'm always remember that... esok petang piju a.k.a b (my beloved fiance) akan ke kuantan tuk g interview jawatan TA.. sedih kene tinggal walaupom sehari dua..huhu.. harap2 b dapat jawatan TA tu... yelah sekarang ni dia keje TA pom tapi kontrak je.. yang dia nak g temuduga ni jawatan tetap..kalu dia dapat tetap.nie la hadiah kami untuk menuju ke alam perkahwinan.. kalu tak dapat,takpe laa... mungkin tak sampai lagi rezeki kan?? ape2 hal saya tetap sokong dia dari belakang.. saya berusaha untuk memahami dia.. i'm try k sebaik,sebagus mungkin... tinggi ni cita-chinta... k la saya nak tdo dulu... see yaa

salah satu kenangan terindah

jika ditanye apa yang buat saya katakan dia kenangan terindah saya?ini salah satu dari dia..final semester yang lalu,saya ade presentation projek..mase tu saya teruk kene lecturer..mase tu saya betul-betul down..macam-macam lecturer kutuk sistem saya ni..saya give up...lepas je presentation tu,saya rase saya nak campak je pc saya tu bawah..dia halang saya buat macam tu..petang tu jugak dia ajak saya keluar berbukak pose bersama-sama..keesokan hari nya saya dah ok..perkara yang lepas saya dah tak pikirkan..bagi saya mase tu presentation tu dah lepas.saya dah buat yang terbaik...i'm good...selang beberapa hari,dia memberitahu ke saya,sebab pe dia ajak saya keluar bukak pose bersama-sama..saya pun tanye kenapa..dia jawap
"abg ajak comel kuar ni sebab abg tak boh comel pikir hal presentation aritu,hal tu kan dah lepas..biarla ia berlalu" ketika tu memang saya tenang lepas dia berkata macam tu..itupun cukup mendamaikan saya..saya tak mintak hadiah yang mahal2..tapi cukup la sekadar memahami diri saya ni..dia cukup memahami saya..semasa kami bersama,saya sentiasa berusaha untuk memahami dia sebab dia amat memahami saya..apa lagi saya nak selain itu???itu sudah cukup!!! itu la salah satu kenangan terindah saya bersama dia...END!!!

just me

mmm rasenyer dah lame saya tak update blog nie... entah mengapa diri ini berasa rasa kosong...terasa diri ini tidak betul...biul... by the way... semalam saya bergaduh giler dengan tunang... ini la pergaduhan pertama kami sejak mengikat tali pertunangan... entah la macam-macam keluar semalam.. sesungguhnya saya amat berjauh ati dengan dia.. melihat keadaan macam ni, adakah patut saya kawin dengan dia nanti?? entah la.. memang buntu..perangai dia memang saya tak paham.. dia lain dengan bekas teman lelaki saya dahulu, saya bukan hendak buat perbandingan dengan dia dengan bekas teman lelaki saya dulu, tapi inilah nyata nya... maaf saya tak biasa dengan keadaan macam ini.. dulu saya sentiasa dimanja, ade tempat mngadu, tempat bermanja... walaupom hakikatnya saya ni panas baran tapi kalu di limpahi dengan kasih sayang, dimanjai macam dulu.. panas baran saya telah berkurang... tapi sekarang ni, saya melepaskan kemarahan saya pada dinding, kete dan macam-macam lagi.. bila bekas teman lelaki saya tahu keadaan saya macam ni, dia terkejut giler!!!! dia tanya saya kenapa saya jadi macam ni sekarang ni? saya jawab saya pom tak tahu kenapa saya jadi macam ni.. dia memang terkejut,sebab masa kami bersama,saya tak penah macam tu.. tak penah menbahasakan aku dengan dia.. saya memang bertutur sopan santun dengan dia dulu.. tu yang dia tak percaya saya macam ni sekarang.. dia la kenangan terindah buat saya... karang ni dia la tempat saya mengadu... sesungguhnya walaupom saya mengadu kepada dia, tak bermakna saya curang dengan tunang saya tau.. sekarang ni,saya selalu sakit-sakit badan... mungkin efek saya tumbuk dinding kot.. huhuhu...

Bagaimana Menyayangi Seseorang???

1. Sayangi dia dengan hati, bukan dengan perasaan. Jika anda meletakkan sesuatu perhubungan berdasarkan perasaan, ianya akan gagal kerana perasaan sentiasa berubah dari masa ke semasa.

2. Sayangi dia seadanya. Di dunia terdapat hampir 6 billion manusia dengan 6 billion personaliti. Dia sememangnya seorang yang istimewa dan biarkan ianya kekal begitu. Jangan sesekali terfikir untuk mengubah apa-apa tentang dia kerana sekali anda mengubah, selamanya anda akan terus mengubah dirinya.Tentu anda masih ingat, anda terpikat padanya kerana dia adalah dia. Maka, tiada alasan untuk anda mengubah dia untuk menjadi seseorang yang lain.

3. Sayangi dia sepenuh hati.Sesungguhnya dia telah banyak berkorban untuk anda. Dengan kelebihan yang ada padanya, dia berpeluang untuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang yang lebih sempurna tapi demi cinta, dia telah memilih diri anda.Maka, jangan sesekali cuba untuk mempermain-mainkan keluhuran cintanya.

4. Hormati pendirian dan keputusan dia. Jangan anda merayu dan jangan mencipta alasan supaya dia menerima cinta anda kerana kelak,yang anda akan dapat darinya hanyalah cinta simpati dan bukannya cinta setulus hati.

5. Yakinkan diri anda akan keistimewaan dia. Dia adalah satu-satunyadi dunia ini dan jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan dari dia kerana dia telah pun cukup sempurna semenjak anda mula terpikat padanya.

6. Percaya akan dirinya. Sentiasa bersangka baik padanya jika kita juga mahukan sebegitu darinya.Pastikan anda akan sentiasa meletakkan diri anda di tempatnya sebelum melakukan apa-apa. Jika anda sendiri tidak dapat menerimanya,apatah lagi dia.

7. Jangan berjanji menyayangi dia untuk selama-lamanya kerana selama-lamanya bagi anda mungkin akan berakhir keesokkan harinya, tapi berjanjilah untuk menyayangi dirinya seolah-olah setiap hari itu adalah hari yang terakhir untuk anda berdua.

8. BERCINTA dengannya adalah seperti memberi hati anda kepadanya untuk dilukai tapi kepercayaan itup enting. Percayalah kepadanya,nescaya dia akan melindunginya sepenuh jiwa dan raga.

9. Jangan sesekali meninggalkan dia tanpa sebarang alasan. Dia bukan hanya akan setakat menangis kecewa dan kemudiannya meneruskan hidup seperti biasa, ketahuilah bahawa jiwanya akan mati secara perlahan.

10. Jangan cepat berbangga dengan diri anda, memenangi hatinya bukanlah satu kejayaan yang mutlak tetapi anugerah itu hanya layak anda perolehi setelah anda berjaya menyayanginya sehingga ke akhir hayat. Ketahuilah, dia memilih anda adalah kerana dia percaya bahaw aanda adalah seorang yang jujur dan akan menepati janji. Anda telah bersusah payah dan berusaha sedaya upaya untuk memenangi cintanya,maka dengan itu haruslah juga anda berusaha untuk terus menyintai dirinya dengan apa jua keadaan sekalipun.

:: HATI SEORANG WANITA ::

1. Sensitif : Bukan bermaksud suka merajuk, tapi hanya ingin bermanja dan mendapatkan perhatian.

2. Cerewet : Bukan bermaksud FUSSY tak tentu hala,LELAKI mengikut kata-katanya sekali sekala.

3. Halus : Ibarat sehelai sutera, cantik, mulus, lembut dan mudah tercarik dan koyak. Walaupun seorang wanita memaafkan seseorang yang lain atas sebab kesalahan,biasanya WANITA akan ingat kesalahan tersebut untuk disimpan jadi pengajaran. Bukan DENDAM.

4. Ikhlas : Ikhlas seorang wanita tak perlu diragui.

5. Korban : WANITA sanggup berkorban apa saja untuk seseorang yang amat disayangi, termasuk ibubapa, anak-anak dan suami. WANITA amat tabah.

6. Prihatin : Sentiasa memerhatikan keadaan sekeliling dalam diam.

7. Manja : Walaupun dia adalah seorang WANITA yang pandai berdikari, naluri seorang WANITA masih lagi tetap seorang WANITA. Suka bermanja bukan hanya kepada insan yang bernama LELAKI , namun juga sesama kaum

8. Ego : WANITA yang terlalu sayangkan kekasihnya sanggup menolak ketepi EGOnya apabila bersemuka dengan yang dicintai.

9. Cinta : CINTA pertama bagi wanita adalah yang paling dalam dan tulus.

10. Seks : SEKs bukanlah segala-galanya buat WANITA kerana WANITA diciptakan dengan 9 nafsu dan satu akal. NAFSU yang banyak dan tidak tertumpu kepada satu saja. LELAKI pula dijadikan dengan 9 akal dan satu nafsu. Fungsi lelaki adalah membimbing WANITA dan bukan menghanyutkannya.

"Peranan LELAKI dalam kehidupan WANITA adalah sebagai pelindung dan bukan sebagai pemusnah.WANITA diciptakan oleh ALLAH swt dari tulang rusuk kiri dan untuk dipeluk dan dimanja, bukan untuk dikasari".

TIPS BERGUNA dari PDRM elak kecurian

[Tips menghalang kecurian seperti yang diberi oleh Polis DiRaja Malaysia]

(1) Jangan biarkan anak-anak tidur di ruang tamu seorang diri (Mereka mungkin menggunakan anak sebagai tebusan).

(2) Kunci atau sorokkan semua pisau-pisau yang terdapat di dapur sebelum tidur (Kesemua kes kecurian di dapati pisau hilang dan menurut polis mereka akan mencari pisau dahulu sebelum mencuri bertujuan untuk melindungi diri mereka).

(3) Sekiranya terdengar/terlihat paip air di luar rumah terbuka pada tengah malam (pukul 12:00 ke atas), jangan keluar rumah untuk menutup paip tersebut kerana ini adalah taktik terbaru mereka di mana mereka telah menunggu diluar pintu rumah untuk masuk (Kes terbaru berlaku di Dungun dan Petaling Jaya).

(4) Beritahu anak-anak sekiranya hendak ke tandas (jika tandas jauh) di waktu tengah malam, kejutkan ibubapa untuk bersama mereka.

(5) Jangan simpan barang-barang kemas di dalam almari baju (Cara lama ...).

(6) Bawa alarm kereta bersama semasa tidur, in case terjaga tengah malam, cuba on and off kan balik untuk menakutkan pencuri (Menandakan kita sentiasa alert).

(7) Tekan button merah alarm kereta anda jika anda suspect pencuri sudah masuk ke dalam rumah.

(8) Sekiranya terlihat orang-orang yang agak aneh dan asing di kawasan rumah anda, sila dapatkan plet no motor/kereta mereka (Selalunya naik motor dan mereka ni biasanya berdua, setiap kali kita lalu depan mereka, mereka akan menundukkan kepala).

(9) Pesan kepada jiran, sekiranya ada sesiapa yang datang ke rumah kita dan mengaku saudara kita bertujuan untuk mengambil barang-barang, jangan benarkan, beri nombor telefor pejabat anda kepada jiran supaya mereka boleh double check dengan kita.

(10) Semasa tidur, pastikan handphone anda berada di sisi atau pastikan juga Cordless Phone anda berada di sisi anda ataupun sambungkan satu extension dalam bilek tidur anda. Ini memudahkan anda membuat panggilan kecemasan sekiranya anda terasa kehadiran pencuri di dalam rumah anda.

(11) Adakan senarai nombor telefon kecemasan seperti polis kawasan anda, bomba kawasan anda, 999 atau sebagainya. Pastikan nombor-nombor ini disimpan dalam handphone anda. Kalau boleh, hafalkan nombor tersebut. Ini memudahkan anda membuat panggilan telefon.

(12) Kalau berkemampuan, pasangkan alat pengesan kecurian di rumah atau automatik alarm.

(13) Lampu porch & lampu belakang rumah sepatutnya terpasang secara automatik bila malam, baik semasa kita ada di rumah atau pergi bercuti.

(14) Kalau cuti lama, pesan jiran kutip surat-surat dalam peti surat. Peti surat yang penuh membantu pencuri menghidu ketiadaan tuan rumah.

(15) Kalau kawasan anda kerap berlaku kecurian, buat permohonan rasmi dari Balai Polis berdekatan supaya ada anggota polis buat rondaan yang kerap di kawasan anda.

(16) Kereta Proton adalah paling mudah dicuri. Kalau kereta anda brand new, sekurang-kurangnya anda perlu lock gear & steering sebelum tidur (Sebenarnya masih boleh dicuri, tetapi akan berjaya melambatkan pencuri).

(17) Kalau ada anak-anak perempuan, sebaik-baiknya pintu biliknya dikunci dari dalam (Sebab ada pencuri yg mengambil kesempatan seksual) dan anda perlu ada kunci pendua in case berlaku kebakaran.

(18) Sekurang-kurangnya simpan kayu hoki atau baseball di bawah katil anda buat mempertahankan diri dari pencuri yang ganas.

(19) Jangan letak kunci bawah pasu bunga/mail box/alang pintu/tepi tingkap bila keluar (Pencuri dah lama tau taktik ni...). Lebih selamat beri pada jiran yang kita kenal rapat.

(20) Kalau sewa rumah baru pastikan anda tukar padlock baru, mana tau bekas-bekas penyewa lama simpan kunci pendua.

(21) Kurangkan pendedahan dan pergaulan anda dengan pekerja asing.

(22) Pastikan keadaan selamat sebelum buka pintu rumah (Tak kira siang atau malam, terutamanya balik lepas 11:00lam).

Source - Bukit Aman PDRM

Be Careful, Be Vigilant, Be Alert and Take Care. Be Good - Do Good - Think Good - Feel Good


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:: 50 STEPS TOWARDS A GREAT MARRIAGE ::

1. Start each day with a kiss.

2. Wear your wedding ring at all times.

3. Date once a week.

4. Accept differences.

5. Be polite.

6. Be gentle.

7. Give gifts.

8. Smile often.

9. Touch.

10. Talk about dreams.

11. Select a song that can be "our song".

12. Give back rubs.

13. Laugh together.

14. Send a card for no reason.

15. Do what the other person wants before he or she asks.

16. Listen.

17. Encourage.

18. Do it his or her way.

19. Know his or her needs.

20. Fix the other person's breakfast.

21. Compliment twice a day.

22. Call during the day.

23. Slow down.

24. Hold hands.

25. Cuddle.

26. Ask for each other's opinion.

27. Show respect.

28. Welcome the other person home.

29. Look your best.

30. Wink at each other.

31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way.

32. Apologize.

33. Forgive.

34. Set up a romantic getaway.

35. Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?".

36. Be positive.

37. Be kind.

38. Be vulnerable.

39. Respond quickly to the other person's request.

40. Talk about your love.

41. Reminisce about your favorite times together.

42. Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.

43. Send flowers every anniversary.

44. Admit when wrong.

45. Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires.

46. Pray for each other daily.

47. Watch sunsets together.

48. Say "I love you" frequently.

49. End the day with a hug.

50. Seek outside help when needed

Love Scope

Cinta itu hadir dalam hati insan membawa seribu suka duka tangis tawa dalam hidup kita dan ujian cinta itu tak mungkin dapat kita jangka kerana kita manusia hanya merancang yang indah sahaja bila dugaan tiba kita sering kali tertanya tanya sehingga kini tiada jawapannya kita sering mengingati kenangan bersamanya manis pahit namun masih bersama sehingga kita matang suatu ketika perpisahan mungkin jalan terbaiknya kerana dari terseksa hidup bersama untuk menerima sekuntum cinta kita mesti sedar ia bukan hanya sebuah cinta yang indah tetapi di dalamnya terlalu banyak kisah gundah yang bisa membuatkan hidup kita resah gelisah tanpa kekuatan hati yang diterajui iman sukar untuk cinta bertapak dihati menjadikan hati taman nurani yang terindah....dalam hidup kita...

Kegagahan Wanita

Kegagahan seorang wanita bukan kepada pejal otot badan, tetapi pada kekuatan perasaan. Perempuan yang gagah adalah :

1) Perempuan yang tahan menerima sebuah kehilangan
2) Perempuan yang tidak takut pada kemiskinan
3) Perempuan yang tabah menanggung kerinduan setelah ditinggalkan
4) Perempuan yang tidak meminta-minta agar di penuhi segala keinginan.
Kegagahan perempuan berdiri di atas teguh iman. Seluruh kegagahan yang ada pada Khadijah adalah kegagahan sempurna bagi seorang perempuan.

Sabda Rasulullah SAW:"Sebarkanlah ajaranku walaupun satu ayat " Surah Al-Ahzab : Ayat 71"Nescaya Allah memperbaiki bagimu amalan-amalanmu dan mengampuni bagimu dosa-dosamu. Dan barangsiapa mentaati Allah dan Rasul-Nya, maka sesungguhnya ia telah mendapat kemenangan yang besar."Wallahualam

Salam Maal Hijrah 1429H

Berkata Ibnu Hurairah "Setiap kali datangnya tahun baru, membuat aku risau dan resah kerana semakin singkat umur ku, Semakin dekatnya ajal ku,

Semakin tipisnya waktu pengampunanku terhadap Allah, Semakin dekatnya hari Perhitungan ku...."

SELAMAT TAHUN BARU HIJRAH 1429 SEMOGA ALLAH AMPUNKAN SEGALA DOSA - DOSA YANG PERNAH, TELAH DAN SEDANG KITA LAKUKAN DENGAN SEBAB TERLUPA, SENGAJA ATAU JAHILNYA KITA SEBAGAI HAMBA ALLAH DI MUKA BUMI INI.

Kenapa Kita menyambut Maal Hijrah?

MUHARAM adalah bulan pertama dalam tahun Islam (Hijrah). Sebelum Rasulullah berhijrah dari Makkah ke Yathrib, kiraan bulan dibuat mengikut tahun Masihi. Hijrah Rasulullah memberi kesan besar kepada Islam sama ada dari sudut dakwah Rasulullah, ukhuwwah dan syiar Islam itu sendiri.

Pada asasnya, Muharam membawa maksud 'diharamkan' atau 'dipantang', iaitu Allah SWT melarang melakukan peperangan atau pertumpahan darah. Namun demikian larangan ini ditamatkan setelah pembukaan Makkah (Al Baqarah: 91).

Sejak pemansuhan itu, umat Islam boleh melaksanakan tugas dan ibadat Harian tanpa terikat lagi dengan larangan berkenaan.Doa akhir tahun dibaca 3 kali pada akhir waktu Asar atau sebelum masuk waktu Maghrib pada akhir bulan Zulhijjah.

Sesiapa yang membaca doa ini, syaitan berkata: "Kesusahan bagiku dan sia-sialah pekerjaanku menggoda anak Adam pada setahun ini dan Allah binasakan aku satu saat jua. Dengan sebab membaca doa ini, Allah ampunkan dosanya setahun."

Peristiwa-peristiwa penting:

* 1 Muharam - Khalifah Umar Al-Khattab mula membuat penetapan kiraan bulan dalam Hijrah.

* 10 Muharam - Dinamakan juga hari 'Asyura'. Pada hari itu banyak terjadi peristiwa penting yang mencerminkan kegemilangan bagi perjuangan yang gigih dan tabah bagi menegakkan keadilah dan kebenaran.

Pada 10 Muharam juga telah berlaku:

1. Nabi Adam bertaubat kepada Allah.

2. Nabi Idris diangkat oleh Allah ke langit.

3. Nabi Nuh diselamatkan Allah keluar dari perahunya sesudah bumi ditenggelamkan selama enam bulan.

4. Nabi Ibrahim diselamatkan Allah dari pembakaran Raja Namrud.

5. Allah menurunkan kitab Taurat kepada Nabi Musa.

6. Nabi Yusuf dibebaskan dari penjara.

Perasaan Selepas Bertunang??

ade seseorang tanyer saya "APA PERASAAN SELEPAS BERTUNANG?" saya pom jawapla semestinya hepi la kan..hubungan kami menuju ke arah perkahwinan..ini membuktikan saya dan tunang saya tidak main-main dalam perhubungan ini..

perubahan perasaan selepas bertunang tak dapat dilihat secara fizikal, tapi dapat dirasakan secara batin..xkan saya nak guling-guling kat lantai kerana hepi
huaa huaa...

::to Be Continue::

engagement ceremony

finally saya telah selamat bertunang dengan pilihan saya sendiri...tO Be ConTinuE...

ok kiter continue...majlis ini saya buat kecik-kecik saja memadai hanya saudara mara yang terdekat sahaja yang hadir..to all my pren,sori la tak jemput pom korang,nanti bile saya kawen, saya tak lupenyer jemput korang semua k...paham-paham jelah engagement ceremony ni buat kecik-kecik jelah,tak kan nak buat macam kenduri kawen...mmm nanti pokai la aku...hehehe